10 dating truths you CAN'T ignore!!
Truth #1:
You'll regret that "Just wanted to make sure you got my last message" follow-up to an email, text message or voicemail.
Truth #2:
If you don't feel comfortable having a conversation with a guy about sex - especially condoms - you shouldn't be getting busy with him.
Truth #3:
If a man breaks up with you out of the blue, the out-of-the-blue part is really only on your end.
Truth #4:
Just as it's best to wait to drop the L-bomb until your man does, let a guy change his Facebook status to "in a relationship" before you do.
Truth #5:
No woman in a healthy long-term relationship has ever said, "Gee, I really wish I'd slept with my man sooner."
Truth #6:
Keeping a change of clothes at work in case of an emergency walk of shame isn't optimistic behavior... it's career-savvy.
Truth #7:
When a guy repeatedly refers to his exes as "crazy", "psycho" or "sluts", he will use those same words against you one day.
Truth #8:
If a relationship feels like too much work after the first month, it'll be 10 times harder a year from now.
Truth #9:
A guy who rates you or other girls as a number from 1 to 10 is a loser, even if he gives you a 10. You're a woman, not a county fair livestock.
Truth #10:
A guy who talks about how skilled he is in the sack is like a man who brags about his money. Either way, he ain't got it. The kind of man you want to be with knows that actions speak louder than words.
This is so true, and I'm sure every girl knows it!! If you've experience one of them, well you can still hang on and wait to see.. but having experienced 4 out of the 10 truths, that is a huge sign to stop!! Haha..
But at the end of the day, we still fall for it..
But seriously ladies, please please don't settle for anything that comes along the way. If you are not sure if there are better ones compared to the one in front of you, just wait!! Don't lower your standards just because you THINK there aren't any good ones left. Only settle if you are VERY SURE!!
Think your standards are too high? Believe it or not, there will be a man who fits your criteria. Why? Because God hears you and knows who's good for you. That man is already out there. It's just a matter of time and place, and when it comes, your heart will immediately say YES without any pause!!
Just believe!
Friday, December 11, 2009 ; 2:26 PM
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