i give up!!!
seriously, i think next time i'll just keep my mouth shut and not comment on anything.. coz seriously, whatever i've commented, i always get shoot in the end.. and i feel useless and lousy for not being able to defend my own dignity..
seriously, can someone please tell me whats the meaning of constructive feedback?? or rather what is feedback?? should it be aimed at one another's wrongdoings?? or rather should it be objective, listing down things that could have been done properly?? please dun tell me there are several definitions.. i'm really sick and tired of having to crack everyone single one's definition and i'm sick of having to keep apologizing just coz ppl are pissed off! i'm sick and tired of keeping things inside fearinfg of offending ppl.. GROW UP THEN!!! you're turning adult soon.. time to learn to take feedbacks in your own stride..
is it coz you are too proud?? or what?? i'm just trying to tell everyone how i felt from the event.. you wanted feedback so i gave you and now you're directing at me saying i'm shooting at everyone.. hello?? where in the email did i say names?? where in the email did i comment this person has not done well?? and seriously, i've not learnt anything much other than me own department.. i'm not saying that no one does a good job.. i suppose compliments should be told face to face.. while the not so good ones to be commented secretly!!!
am i wrong to comment?? you said jo is wrong to comment that she should settle with alvin alone.. for now, i didnt even comment on anyone, i didnt directly shoot anyone, i'm just providing feedbacks for every department including myself!!!
OMG!!! i'm so f**king pissed off!!!
and dun tell me to forget everything since its a misunderstanding.. try be in my shoes and see if you can just forget the whole thing especially when your dignity's been crushed!! and yet you cant defend yourself and have to apologize just for pissing that person off..
Sunday, April 09, 2006 ; 10:17 AM
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